Amy's on the dot, I'm not gonna say much as I'm pretty neutral to everything, but these threads can get uncivil super fast due to tests of faith and righteousness overtaking the tranquility of civil debate.
This will likely be my only post here, as I'm already on code red due to recent things.
This is the only real truth-- It's not about who you are, or what your religion is, it's how you wear it.
I have witnessed the worst and best of several different cultures and peoples, none are better or worse than the others, all have the bad eggs, all have a majority of not-so-bad to really good yolky(yolk means chummy in this analogy) eggs. I myself am agnostic, and it seems to me a lot of the militant overzealousness some people tend to associate to religious faiths is based in who is right about what can't really be proven, not yet-- anyway.
The militant zeal isn't a symptom of religious orders alone, however. Every single sect of society in humanity has those people who will go to wit's end to prove that their side is correct, even when there's no evidence to prove that they are right or to disprove anybody who disagrees with them.
What I find makes it so noticable in religious circles is that unlike in most sects that are more real or at least quantifiable in some way, most religions are based on words written millennia ago, and in translation a lot of the original intent gets lost, or the original meanings twisted by vague scarcity, the omission is then oftenly taken for granted and used as a means to push mortal agendas, which can quickly escalate to violence-- the Inquisition, World War II, the Crusades, all brought on by pronounced misinterpretation of a deity's word, and those are only famous examples, there's probably far more.
The upside to being agnostic is that I don't act like I know anything, which makes quarrels with me over religious things pretty much a no-go because I can outweigh the need to argue with a respect for the omissions, people are generally happy to not continue if they aren't being asked to admit they're wrong, they only would like a chance to still be right.
I find more neutral orders like buddhism that don't have a moral choice system (heaven/hell, olympus/the underworld, valhalla/sovngarde etc.) are much more chill, because there's no wrong thing to do, except what you think or believe is right, Buddhism is built toward finding inner peace, and every buddhist I've met has been the chillest dude. What tends to happen is in circles where there's a good end (heaven) and a bad end (hell) there's immediately a social breach between the orthodox and the unorthodox, and every action you make is as a purist believer who doubts in themselves, is wrought with 'is this the right thing to do by God', 'will this land me in hell?', it's a very stressful lifestyle for those with severe issues of self-image. I remember one of my friends used to constantly do a ritual that'd take about two hours around the house to keep her conscience clear.
I myself was a Christian for about 8 years (age 5-13), it was my choice to dabble in it at five, and while I was never a super purist follower, it wasn't an athiest who converted me, nor a satanist who opened my eyes to the one true lord and master, Stan.
It was several disgraceful zealous attitudes displayed within the church that lead to me just phasing out. I used to love Church, I'd go in, get to drink a bit of wine (actually grape juice, I wasn't a catholic, hue) and we'd eat bread and sing these songs, I didn't really understand what a lot of it meant, but the ambiguity was part of the elated charm for me.
However as time went by I began to notice how nasty some got talking behind each others backs, but that I could ignore and move beyond because at least they weren't making it that person's problem. But I did began to question what we could really state we knew of God, do we even know that's his name? I then tried to piece together where people got that God hated gays, or that other stuff some zealous neo-christians say like it's absolute fact.
Piecing it together, i eventually learned the bible was a tool, that was largely used by people to hedge their bets and fortify their agenda, no matter how moral or immoral.
Then I became aware of much of the scum and villainy within the Church, not just mine, Churches everywhere. Even Charities, it started to make me feel sick to look at. It was shortly after that I felt I no longer could respect those who called themselves Christians, not because they are unanimously bad, like i said, only a few are rotten eggs, but I could never see it the same way, the precipice of it's once coruscant glimmer had fallen like the angel Lucifer himself.
I did try out Athiesm, but it was more of the same, people thinking they knew better about the Universe than they had means to prove, they were for a lot of the part, more logical, due to their existence being one grounded in the harshness of reality, but the entire lack of mysticism was nearly as damning as the damnation of it.
Agnosticism was my calling, no church, no obligations, you didn't know what god wanted, if he wanted anything, or if he cared at all. And 'God' essentially becomes 'a great Power beyond understanding or reach', and you're not even sure that exists. You didn't act like you knew, and that suited me just fine, because what did I know? I had seen nothing with my eyes to affirm the existence of a god, but yet in the grand scope of the universe, who knows what's possible?
Not me, and that's how I like it.
-Biz out.